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Showing posts with label 2月14日. Show all posts

A Challenging Q1 for 2025

2024 与 2025的交接,说实在我还真的没接住。
一切都发生得太突然了,很肯定这一年一定不简单。
新的居住环境,新的工作,新的身份。

新的一年,新年也来得特别快。
先把年过好再打算吧。

年初一的拜祭,今年第一次穿旗包过年~

 
初二和表兄妹们带狗子出街去~很喜欢大家在一起的感觉。
因为真的很珍贵。

远道而来的小侄子也越来越大了~

感恩家人们都健康平安,每一年的聚会虽短,
但是还是一定要拜个年的。

失联的同学吗?祝你新婚快乐!

姐妹党帮我庆生,谢谢!

中学党今年在我家帮我庆生,可惜了6缺2。
希望大家都好好的,我们一定要再聚!


新年的必备活动,没想到这个画面以后应该没了。
因为外公过年后就只能卧床,干什么都没兴致了。

难得的全家福,虽然仍然不齐全,但还是很热闹。


新年的点点滴滴,来去匆匆,唯有看照片说故事了。
这会不会是我最后一年拿红包了呢?

所遇到的人,都是我的贵人。

 
今年一开始就是个挑战,我有点招架不住。
但是,生活就是见招拆招,没有什么是过不去的。

 
年头也是妈妈的生日,和我的生日。

 
还有很多小事的衬托,让生活忙忙碌碌的。

 最开心的莫过于友人的心肝宝贝来到了这个世界,
真心为她感到高兴,小宝贝是个小男孩,真可爱!

 
遇到了好久不见的友人与老师。
她结婚生子了,她退休自由自在了。
每个人的生活都在慢慢的好起来,你呢?

 
有时候,我只想这样子让岁月慢慢流逝。
不需要大风大浪,也不需要大富大贵。
当个平凡人,本来就是福气了。

看到外公没办法自理了,心里也不好过。
他错过了表妹的结婚仪式,也渐渐地忘了我们的名字。

家里难得有喜事,真好。
期待下一场喜事的到来,而我也要继续努力了。

伴随着清明节的到来,2025也过了四份之一。
今年的清明很热闹,见到很多没见过的亲戚,
不知道以后在路上见面,还会不会认得他们。

生活的坑坑洞洞,感恩有小天使的陪伴。
年纪越来越大,越来越容易感触。
小狗狗的白毛也越来越多,希望它能够好好度过晚年。

每天依然可可爱爱~

 
拍帅气的照片,到处都人见人爱~

 
谢谢陌生摄影师的照片,真的很好看。

然后重点来了......
今年,我尝试了第一次没有完成试用期就走人的工作。
这真的是不在我的计划内,相信完全就是老天的安排吧。
在这里,我有一批很能干的同事,
可能不能干的人是我吧。

为期三个月的工作,我尽力了。
环境的问题,沟通的问题,私人企业的管理方式?
反正我就是焦虑,心跳加速的感觉真不好受。
过去被办活动的工作榨干,然后在这里也会面对相同性质的工作。
我反反复复地问自己,这是我想要的吗?

当然,三个月的难过中,也有快乐的时刻。
它养育了我三个月,陪我度过了经济的困扰,
也让我看到自己的不足,还有很多处理事情上的缺点。
只能说,这是魔鬼般的训练,让我迅速觉醒与进步。

这三个月,是老天为我开的一扇门。
我的人生剧本里,虽然这一章有些短暂,
但是我一定毕生难忘,因为从生理与心理上,
它真的让我走出舒适圈,重新审视自己。
在这里,我看到了另一面的自己,才发现原来我也可以这么轻易掉泪,
原来我也会有轻度抑郁的症状,原来我也会害怕。

在进退两难的情况下,我终究还是要做一个决定的。
感恩这三个月对我身心灵的洗礼,让我更珍惜平淡与安稳的日子。
最后,很开心结识了很多很多的新朋友,大家萍水相逢,
希望在未来的日子大家继续加油!
和我一起同日加入新公司的马来同事,
我很喜欢她。

就这样吧,既来之,则安之。
焦虑还是会有的,反正这一年一点都不简单。
觉醒,接受,允许一切的发生。
走在自己的时间线上,我们不需要那么完美。
相信一切的发生都有原因,一切都是安排好的。
接下来的日子,要稳住。
加油!




2023, let's get back to normal life!

2022 was blessed as I've survived from Covid-19 for another year.
So Hi 2023!
It is really nice to be back to normal routine.
But wearing mask has become a habit nowadays.
I try my best to keep it on. 

~Spring~

2023 started with new hope as everyone was healthy and good.
Chinese New Year came earlier this year, it was in January.
So Happy CNY, we had more activities this year, but the most interesting one would be:
Picnic with the fur kids!
It was a fun morning, we put efforts into it so it was memorable.

Family time for CNY~

Another family~

Me and mum this CNY~

Brought the elders to watch a CNY movie, they kinda enjoyed it I think.

Chinese New Year is slightly different this year as I got to receive more Ang Paos from my besties and little cousin, haha!
 
Thank you for the red packets! 

Simple gathering and chit chat with friends~
齐齐整整的感觉真好。

Little nephew was also back this year to celebrate CNY with us, so we became quite busy.
Anyhow, here are some of the happy family moment to be remembered.
 
Big boy year by year~

Happy birthday yo!
To my little boy and Aquarius besties.
We call her Princess, hehe!

Happy birthday to my cousin and mum as well!

Yea, so spring was heartwarming.
Birthdays of the 30s are getting simpler, so thank you very much for all the wishes and gifts.
Let's grow old together!

Happy birthday to myself!

Thank you for the celebration!

32年的母难日快乐~

So we took mum to meet her DJ "friends" during CNY as well~
Because it is her favourite radio fm's DJs, so yea~
Meeting the gang at event, but the event ended up cancelled due to rain~

Meeting the gang for a second event in the same month~

So proud of my university mate who is now a capable DJ, huhu!
Spring was good, thank you for the love and peace~


~Summer~

April came too soon.
Then we finally met.

Happy birthday to my ladies~

Cute forever, grow together~

The the days got really hot.
It was time for Cheng Beng again.
Prayer time for the ancestors. 
Always try my best to attend each prayer that I could.

Also Wesak Day celebration~

And Mother's Day~

Happy Mother's Day

Then Happy Father's Day!
Haha, throwback all the moments in 2023~

And of course, my besties birthdays again!
I love how we grow old together, hehe!
Happy birthday Leng Lui mama~

Thanks for sticking with me since 13 years old~

And ya, little boy had his holiday in Penang again~
Singer or Bob the builder wanna be?

Bonding time as Yiyi (me) also I can be quite playful sometimes~
But I get tired easily after awhile, hmm~


~Autumn~

Happy birthday little cousin! Guess which one is me~
Together, we welcome my favourite season.
But the autumn is not obvious here~

Met old friends unexpectedly! 
Haha, they brought kids, I brought fur kids~

Aunty came back for holiday too~
Nice meeting you all again!

Big nephew now become a teenager!
Oh boy~
Making new friend with the Jerry boy~

It was a beautiful view.
When everyone is together, it means a lot.

So I kinda treated them a meal, ahaha.
Broke but happy inside.

Something to my body this year...
I had Piriformis Syndrome. 

Piriformis syndrome is a condition in which the piriformis muscle, located in the buttock region, spasms and causes buttock pain.

The piriformis muscle also can irritate the nearby sciatic nerve and cause pain, numbness and tingling along the back of the leg and into the foot (similar to sciatic pain).
Treatment on going using machines and devices.
It was not fun.
Had to visit a physiologist for checkup and weekly treatment for about 1-2 months.

 Also, started my yoga class since May/June to fix the syndrome.
End up I am continuing the class until today.
Though the pain is reduced now, but it could attack sometimes.
So need a long term adjustment and yoga practices to maintain my body.
Great huh, old body is like old machine. 
It needs services and lubricant to keep functioning~

And this autumn, we finally changed the government again!
Thanks to myself, good job!

And lastly for this season, my first Haidilao steamboat experience!
Dedicated to my ladies~

Happy birthday to our queen for steamboat,
stay pretty and happy yo!

~Winter~

Last but not least, here come the last quarter of 2023.
I did something new with my friends.
We helped to makeup for kids who performed a play.
It was quite fun! 

Then I realised, I love to makeup for people.
It was a fun thing to do yea~
I like to blush especially.

Meet the power of 5~
Me the aunty cannot handle 5 kids.
Haha!

Just happy to be a part of this gang.
A full photo with them made me smile.
And yea, cut my hair short cause I wanted to feel different.
And I am in love with this hair style, though I hated it when I was in secondary school.
Let me be a jie jie and not yi yi ok?

2023 is ending soon.
As a sis, I am happy to announce that:
My little bf is now married!

Thank you for always taking care of me, 
I am very happy for you.
It was a blessed wedding ya!


2023 is truly a year with a lot of challenges, I got emotional quite easily too.
But seeing the people around me suffering from emotional and mental illness make me feel sad.
It is not easy, but I hope everything will be alright for them.
I might not be able to help much, but I am trying my best.
Being normal is a gift, so just be a normal man if you can.
Main goal achieved, more goals are coming soon.
Thank you for reading!



Ps: I missed last winter.